misandry-mermaid
owning-my-truth:

whatwhiteswillneverknow:

32andstillgrowingupnow:

fandomsandfeminism:

whatwhiteswillneverknow:

… with different degrees of struggles that we’re implemented by the pale skin via conquests using weapons such as warfare, religion indoctrination, and oppression. And then after pale skin set systems like this into our society, they go around and say things like “We are all human” and confuse “racism” with “prejudice” so that they can keep the system the same way for many years to come.

Shots fired.

You totally missed the point of this, didn’t you?

That were all human? No. What you missed is that it’s a dismissive phase that a lot of people like to say at times to dismiss arguments like the one you clearly missed.
Some of us can’t afford to live on fantasy island.

owning-my-truth:

whatwhiteswillneverknow:

32andstillgrowingupnow:

fandomsandfeminism:

whatwhiteswillneverknow:

… with different degrees of struggles that we’re implemented by the pale skin via conquests using weapons such as warfare, religion indoctrination, and oppression. And then after pale skin set systems like this into our society, they go around and say things like “We are all human” and confuse “racism” with “prejudice” so that they can keep the system the same way for many years to come.

Shots fired.

You totally missed the point of this, didn’t you?

That were all human? No. What you missed is that it’s a dismissive phase that a lot of people like to say at times to dismiss arguments like the one you clearly missed.

Some of us can’t afford to live on fantasy island.

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southern-feminism
persephoneholly:

personhoodusa:

Over 300,000 children are murdered inside Planned Parenthood clinics every year. http://ift.tt/ITL4iD

BULL FUCKING SHIT.
My mother was three months pregnant with me when she waltzed into Planned Parenthood. But she didn’t get an abortion. Not because she had a ‘sudden change of heart’ nor because someone ‘lead her Jesus’ but because she went there to make sure I was and would be born healthy.
My parents were two poor young adults in their late teens and early twenties when I was conceived. They lived in a tiny apartment and had no insurance, but they wanted me. My mom drove herself to Planned Parenthood from the third month of pregnancy to the fifth (until she finally got medical insurance.) There she got the ultrasound screenings, found out I was a girl, got the prenatal vitamins and were referred to see the physician I’ve been going to from my birth to now. 
Thanks to Planned Parenthood, I was born healthy at six pounds, seven ounces. I had no malformations, no preventable disorders and no preventable health issues. The only thing that occurred was I was in ‘fetal distress’ and was born a week before the due date.
I ‘made it out alive’ and thanks to Planned Parenthood I ‘made it out’ healthy.
Take this bullshit elsewhere.
TL;DR?: Read the bold.

persephoneholly:

personhoodusa:

Over 300,000 children are murdered inside Planned Parenthood clinics every year. http://ift.tt/ITL4iD

BULL FUCKING SHIT.

My mother was three months pregnant with me when she waltzed into Planned Parenthood. But she didn’t get an abortion. Not because she had a ‘sudden change of heart’ nor because someone ‘lead her Jesus’ but because she went there to make sure I was and would be born healthy.

My parents were two poor young adults in their late teens and early twenties when I was conceived. They lived in a tiny apartment and had no insurance, but they wanted me. My mom drove herself to Planned Parenthood from the third month of pregnancy to the fifth (until she finally got medical insurance.) There she got the ultrasound screenings, found out I was a girl, got the prenatal vitamins and were referred to see the physician I’ve been going to from my birth to now. 

Thanks to Planned Parenthood, I was born healthy at six pounds, seven ounces. I had no malformations, no preventable disorders and no preventable health issues. The only thing that occurred was I was in ‘fetal distress’ and was born a week before the due date.

I ‘made it out alive’ and thanks to Planned Parenthood I ‘made it out’ healthy.

Take this bullshit elsewhere.

TL;DR?: Read the bold.

stfumras
emotionallychargedtowel:

bisexual-books:

a-little-bi-furious:

nobodysgrrrrl:

freelgbtqpia:


"He doesn’t mean to hurt me-he just loses control." “He can be sweet and gentle.” “He’s scared me a few times, but he never hurts the children-he’s a great father.” “He’s had a really hard life…”  Women in abusive relationships tell themselves these things every day. Now they can see inside the minds of angry and controlling men-and change their own lives. In this groundbreaking book, a counselor shows how to improve, survive, or leave an abusive relationship, with:  € The early warning signs € Nine abusive personality types € How to tell if an abuser can change, is changing, or ever will € The role of drugs and alcohol € What can be fixed, and what can’t € How to leave a relationship safely

[PDF]

This book is an excellent resource for anyone you know who is, or you suspect is, in an abusive relationship.

Hi this has an old link that expired, the original post has been fixed and you can find the pdf here. 

Even though this book is really focused on straight relationships and the abuse patterns of straight men, I found parts of it really helpful to me as a bi woman whose abuser was another woman.  
- Sarah

Not only was this book extremely helpful to me as a DV survivor—it’s the reason I was finally able to see my abuse for what it was and has helped a great deal with my recovery—I have talked to countless DV survivors in various settings who swear by this book and benefited a great deal from reading it. Bancroft worked with abusers for years before writing this book and it shows. He really nails the abuser mentality in a way that is so clear and that helps a lot with the process of un-brainwashing yourself after abuse. Every time I get to know someone new who is a survivor of IPV I recommend this book to them. Whenever possible I recommend purchasing it so that Bancroft can continue to do this useful work, but it’s great to see a pdf available for those who aren’t able to get it by other means. Very highly recommended. 

emotionallychargedtowel:

bisexual-books:

a-little-bi-furious:

nobodysgrrrrl:

freelgbtqpia:

"He doesn’t mean to hurt me-he just loses control."
“He can be sweet and gentle.”
“He’s scared me a few times, but he never hurts the children-he’s a great father.”
“He’s had a really hard life…”

Women in abusive relationships tell themselves these things every day. Now they can see inside the minds of angry and controlling men-and change their own lives. In this groundbreaking book, a counselor shows how to improve, survive, or leave an abusive relationship, with:

€ The early warning signs
€ Nine abusive personality types
€ How to tell if an abuser can change, is changing, or ever will
€ The role of drugs and alcohol
€ What can be fixed, and what can’t
€ How to leave a relationship safely

[PDF]

This book is an excellent resource for anyone you know who is, or you suspect is, in an abusive relationship.

Hi this has an old link that expired, the original post has been fixed and you can find the pdf here.

Even though this book is really focused on straight relationships and the abuse patterns of straight men, I found parts of it really helpful to me as a bi woman whose abuser was another woman.  

- Sarah

Not only was this book extremely helpful to me as a DV survivor—it’s the reason I was finally able to see my abuse for what it was and has helped a great deal with my recovery—I have talked to countless DV survivors in various settings who swear by this book and benefited a great deal from reading it. Bancroft worked with abusers for years before writing this book and it shows. He really nails the abuser mentality in a way that is so clear and that helps a lot with the process of un-brainwashing yourself after abuse. Every time I get to know someone new who is a survivor of IPV I recommend this book to them. Whenever possible I recommend purchasing it so that Bancroft can continue to do this useful work, but it’s great to see a pdf available for those who aren’t able to get it by other means. Very highly recommended.